Every person has 3 basic categories of needs:

physical needs,

emotional needs,

intellectual needs.

Most parents are doing a good job taking care of the physical needs of their child.

Many parents are also very well able to provide for the intellectual needs of their children.

But when it comes to emotional needs, many times parents do not provide for those needs,

not because they do not want to, but because they do now know how to.

Often they might have emotional wounds that prohibit them

from being there emotionally for their children.

Because of this, a child will develop emotional wounds.

So when he grows up, he will react when someone will touch the pain caused

by his parents or by those close to him (siblings, grandparents).

There are many different ways in which an adult will react

to someone touching their emotional pain.

We are all different.

And we respond to pain in different ways.

No matter who people are and where they grew up,

everyone will try to avoid pain.